Having a baby with the wrong woman can ruin your life. Unfortunately there's many more out there like her. She's attempting to extort him for her own personal gain. They need to settle this in the courtroom. I’m sure his family court lawyer is telling him to chill out she's doing more harm to herself.

He should use her words against her to prove that she's lying about being abused. Saying that she'll "Ruin his life" doesn't sound like someone who's been victimized, it sounds like someone who's being vindictive and out for revenge.